>We live, we study, we read, we amass, we sing, we enjoy, we meet people, make friends, we fall in love, we create and one fine day we die…what remains of us is, in d end is only what others think of us..good or bad.
Perhaps to start loving somebody we never knew for 20-25 years of our life, after adulthood has set in is not the same as loving your siblings who you grew up with. Its like your friends in school having an irreplacable place in your life but people you meet later in life after you have become somewhat cynical, remain kinda ‘friends’ maybe ‘good friends’ at its best. so again why husband or wife then? if you can then perhaps you have truly transcended the wrong things you have learnt growing up..ol people say, “never trust a stranger”others say “blood is thicker than water”yet others, “family above all else”….but when you marry your given away to yr husband & in-laws and they are meant to be family…hey hey hang on a sec here! cant just take one and replace with the other and expect everything to fall into place..just like that.!!
Many a time, people around have asked me about what is it about lyf that i love so much?How can i just let my lyf take control oer me? Those are the times i feel that my lyf is so much like d relation I share with the almighty, I’ve never seen him, don’t know what kind he is?! But I still keep aside all my doubts and apprehensions and trust him so much and believe in him with so much faith and let him take control oer me!The strength and security i get is so much more than wat i get from the people around n from dose i have grown up with. Its amazing how u can trust a complete stranger and make him a part of ur life! Well the principle i follow is i dont think he/she can hurt me any more than the people i know for so long, can!
In the words of my hero, “when u were born everyone around u were laughing n u were crying. Live life in a way that when u die, ur the one smiling while everyone around are crying.”