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People say ‘friendship is over-rated’. Probably it is. It is very easy to tell someone how they weren’t there for you without realizing how difficult it was for you to be there for them.
 Just that, I have learnt to not be there for whom friendship was only a matter of convenience. I do not want to be extra nice and be known as a person who will go out of her way and do anything like a super-heroine for someone or anyone. I have done it a lot in my life, never to be helped in return.The world is living on convenience, I can too. People will never accept that they weren’t there for you. Only they have justifications. Nobody does/ says anything ‘wrong’ on purpose. Everyone has a reason for every action and every word.
I am purposely being convenient by not being there for you. Because, you taught me the bond of convenience.


There is a deep and cosmological connection between my birth, my parent's decision to name me what they did, my profession and my education. This brings me to the conclusion that fate is predetermined and like in Hindu mythology, is written by Brahma when someone is born. Example: My name is unique. I did my grads in Psychology. I then did my masters in HR (offshoot of following all the psychos). I then did the ultimate decision of joining an MNC in ............. beat it, BUSINESS DEVELOPMENT. So, I have the concept 'MAD' in my name, my education, my choice of career and all the milestone decisions of my life. Now, is it predetermined or what ? :-D

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