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I, Me, Myself

Good Afternoon people! It is a Wednesday afternoon and I think most people I can see from where I sit are in a cranky mood! Soo I was away with family for some family bonding giving  each other solace n all that and I am going to be on and off in writing till the new year. Not that I have lots of things to do but I need to get some time to myself and do some me time before the new year begins and so I will be on a wavy mood(high and low) !

It irks me. The being pulled out of the comfy zone I mean.It’s like being pulled out of a cocoon. It always feels terrible to get out of one’s comfort zone. But as everyone knows, you can’t achieve anything unless you get out of it. Change of phases always bring me a great discomfort. Eventually, I do end up liking them though.

When I was in school, I was damn sure I will never like college. First of all, I had to go to Tamil Nadu and talk to my classmates in Tamil. It’s not that I don’t know the language at all n all that but if you speak to me in “Senthamil” I would look as if I was just given a time bomb. I would never get to lead that super cool life like in school were  I was just so carefree, enthusiastic and in love with life. I would never get to travel in my school bus, hang around the local shop with my friends etc. And on top of that, I  knew I would get a culture shock at CBE. If I sound like a rude mallu, I must admit that I was one! The me taking a liking to CBE was a gradual process. I slowly started liking the place. I started liking the “chilli parotta” which was the only reason I didnt die of hunger in my first year. But then like I said I would have found some reason or the other to like the phase anyway. I met Div and Deeps there and formed a bond for lifetime. By the end of my third year, I was completely in love with the new phase.

By the time I reached my final semester, I knew I had to figure out what to do so I decided to study further. I came back to my hometown to do my masters. I wasnt too glad and all that but yes the fact that it was my hometown kinda gave me a high. By the third semester, I was damn sure I wouldn’t like going to work. Too much responsibilities. Too much headache. And you can’t sleep during work hours. When I started to work… it didn’t turn out so bad. The money earning part I just loveeeee 😀 The financial independence is just awesome. I have been working for about 3.6 years now and have loved it till now( though I still crib about the lack of sleep and not being to sit at home and idle n all tht)

Now its almost time for my next transition(the nost major one by far) and I feel the same discomfort. Maybe all this uneasiness is for the good, as proved in the past. Though I think this transition phase is a lil harder than the other ones I went through because there is a lot more pressure, a lot more of disappointments.. and you are just looking desperately for that little iota of hope and happiness.

Sometimes, I just wish I could go back to my childhood days and start things all over again…

But then…this is what life is all about.

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The Kodai Diaries

Finally, our much awaited holidays to Kodaikanal took off on 1st October early morning at 1:00 am. Yes I know that’s crazy but I’ll tell you in awhile why it was a great idea to leave that early.

The four of us had a cup of coffee and took off from Kottayam at 1:00 am on Saturday Morning, taking turns to drive. The route from kumily to thenni is superb. Since it was night we did see some deers, langurs.porcupines and monkeys. We reached thenni at 6:20 in the morning and had a nice cup of tea from the roadside tea shop. Well I must say that shops in Tamil Nadu seem to open at 4:00 in the morning, much to our surprise. We started driving up the Kodai Road at 6:45 and reached kodaikanal at 8:00 am. The drive was great. The reason being, since it wasn’t hot at all, none of us got tired. We could roll down the windows and get real fresh air. Absolutely no traffic and no disturbance. It was a great journey from the start.

After hours of research and googling, we had reserved rooms at Dale Thorpe. It was definitely love at first sight! Great Place for a getaway. The service being outstanding. However, I would suggest that you have breakfasts there and have rest of your meals outside because of the variety of food available at kodaikanal. Read reviews of Dalethorpe here.

So, we had our breakfast of hot idlis, dosas and sambhar and decided to take a small nap for 2 hours before venturing out. At 12:30 pm we took our cameras and began our journey. Our first stop was the shopping area for a small round of shopping. It’s at the heart of the town, around the lake. Smile and Bargain. We stopped to have lunch at a small Tibetian Restaurant. Amazing food! Momos, Chicken Wings, Fried Rice, Noodles, Massaman Curry n everything chinese, tibetian and indian. It’s a rush during weekends because of tourists and the regular Kodaikanal College and school crowd. Its best to drop in between 12:30 and 1:00 or between 2:30 and 3:00. pm. They are open for dinner as well and its packed!!! Our best find was this shop called Pastry Shop, very close to BATA showroom. The gentleman who owns it is a man named Prasanna. He really lives up to the word gentleman. The Pastry Shop serves the most delicious brownies,cakes and truffles I have ever had! He gives away chunks just to taste. They are open from 11:30-5:30 everyday. This place is a must visit.

After satisfying our tummy, we set off to Coakers Walk for a nice walk. It is bestto go after 3pm if you want a nice romantic walk.History says that this 5 km hill-edge path way was identified by Er.Coaker in 1872. About a Kilometer from the lake, Coakers Walk runs along a steep slope on the southern side of Kodai. It offers some of the best views of the Plains. Entry fee is collected at Rs 10 per head here. On a cloudless, clear day one can have interesting sights, such as…. Dolphin’s nose in south, valley of the pambar river in South East, birds eye view of Periyakulam and even city of Madurai. One must be aware of a attractive happening called ‘Brachem Spectre’ which is  when a very lucky person can see his shadow on the clouds with a rainbow halo, when sun is behind and cloud and mist is in his front. None of us were lucky enough :(. Another hotel to note here is Villa Retreat. A great hotel with a stunning view. We have noted it for our next visit here 🙂

We decided to end our first day with a drive around the lake. It was a nice lazy drive. After 7:00 pm, the shops slowly close down. The only people left are people on their evening walks, couples on their honeymoon and the locals. We headed back to the hotel and retired after a nice dinner of Chappathi, Chicken Curry, Fish Fry, Rice, Aloo Gobhi and sambhar.

Day two started early. We had a sumptuous breakfast and headed out to Berinjam Lake. This place is a must see. The Entry is right next to Pillar Rocks  at Moir Point where per car is 300 Rs. Its best toThe road is narrow and tough mountain terrain within a dense forest area, but the view is worth itThe drive to reach the lake takes around 45 minutes.On the way to Berijam lake, you can stop at Silent Valley and Caps fly Valley, both of which are beautiful. Silent valley has a very enchanting and scary feel about it. There’s a sheer drop covered with mist that takes you straight to the pearly gates if you don’t watch your step. The kind of stuff painters love to draw. Wear good shoes in this trip. It’s very wet around Kodai and these are slippery mountain trails. There’s a small roadside attachment on the way called the ‘Berijam lake view’ further up where you can stop and take a look at the lake from above the mountains. It’s a breathtaking view.When you ultimately reach berijam lake, the first thing you come across is a barricade that keeps all the taxis and bus out. You go on foot from there. The lake is 25 Kms in perimeter. When you start walking, go about 100 metres and to the right there is a less travelled route to reach a nice part of the lake. It is an adventurous route and please beware of leeches. It bit two of us! There’s a signboard that say there’s a goverment rest house near the lake. The lake is a source of pure natural mountain water. There is a small shop that provides bread and omelets.I suggest you pick up something on the way so that you can have a picnic there.No boats or fishing but there are some tents and campers. Later the tents get taken down as it got darker. Maybe it gets too cold, or maybe it’s not permitted or safe at night. There is plenty of place to be alone in the wild if that is what you are looking for. The place is not crowded at all (like Kodai lake). It’s deep inside the forest and away from civilization. The forests around are dense and rich. There is a board listing panthers besides varieties of deer.To sum it up, it’s a very beautiful place to be alone and away from civilization for some time, but the road is not very easy. If you take the trip, the trouble is worth it.

On the way back from the lake,we stopped by at Pillar Rocks.The Kodaikanal Pillar Rocks are made up of three massive granite rocks whose heights extend up to 400 feet. Sited 8 km from the lake tower, tourists can obtain a spectacular bird’s eye view of the surrounding panoramic vistas.The cool, dark shadows of the Pillar rocks of Kodaikanal are a good place to picnic and relax at leisure, engulfed by the tranquil quietude. A small and beautifully tended garden, glowing in the colors of the seasonal blooms adds to the charm and the picture perfect beauty of the place. The rock pillars have hidden nooks and corners and cavernous chasms that exude an aura of mystery that delights all adventure enthusiasts.

It is interesting to note that there exists a small and enigmatic chamber between the two pillars that is appropriately named the Devil’s kitchen for its eerie ambiance.It’s now called Guna Caves after it was turned into a romantic kidnapper’s lair for a Tamil movie. Loud teenagers stand just outside the fencing around the cave, screaming angstful “Abiramiiiii!”s (name of kidnapped in said movie).  It is said that locals come looking for a certain hallucinogenic ‘magic mushroom’ that gets them a good price from “Keralites and foreigners”. There is an entry, veiled by bramble, a path only some people know about. The rocks are loose and wobbly, the fluorescent green moss making everything slippery. Bats are shrieking from somewhere really south, and we, errr… are heading in the same direction. Someone is haggling for a kilo of carrots somewhere far above and it sounds warm and safe there. Inside Devil’s Kitchen, however, the air’s muggy, the walls smooth, with little shelves that look perfect for a perch. The guys with me chucked a pebble that was instantly swallowed by the darkness. We hear the plonk only after about 10 seconds, and a crash of wing flapping (of bats we jolted awake). We’d discovered fresh country by simply stumbling on it. This is the kind of place that teaches you to how important it is to have a firm footing.

Baffled by the experience and really tired, we decided to grab a bite. There is a place called Clouds End which is a cafe run by Tibetians. Do not go there!!! I am sayin this because they served stale food which they argued was nice!!!That took us to Pizza Corner back in the town. After lunch, we decided to cycle around the lake and do a bit of shopping. Cycling around the periphery of the lake is 5 km and take about an hour if you stop for shopping. We bought some knick knacks, some gifts for folks back home etc. Dinner was at The New Punjab Restaurant. Yummy food at great Prices. We took it back to our room to eat in front of the bonfire. Great food, a fire to keep you warm and a nice glass of port wine! What more could anyone ask for. We enjoyed our last night at Kodai, sad to be leaving next day.

We started back early next morning. By the time we reached the foothill it was blazing hot and we regretted not getting out earlier!! Which is why I said its best to travel really early in the morning.
Kodai will always hold a place in my heart coz I realised a lot of things at one shot during this trip. That’s another post 🙂

P.S- For all the chocaholics out there,like me. There is a shop right next to The Pastry Shop which is a SPice/Chocolate Shop. GO there for some yummy,gooey hot chocolate! Priced at 60 Rs per cup, its a must try!!!

Until next time, explore Kodai!

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Truth is stranger than fiction!

I promised a lot of people that I’d share with them the basis of my short story, The Call. So here goes…

I did my graduation in a popular Tamil Nadu College and I was a regular in the bus going to Kerala every weekend. Due to the rush, sometimes I used to get the last bus which was at 11:00 pm and my friends would be there to see me off to ensure that I was safe! Yeah how sweet!

One night as I was waiting for my bus to arrive, I noticed a girl who was my senior standing across the road. She was dressed very sexy like she was going partying. I knew her from college and was just about to go meet her when my friend stopped me and told me not to go and to wait and watch. What followed was an absolute stunner!

A car stopped in front of her and they spoke something and the car left. Another stopped in a few minutes and left. 5-6 cars followed and then finally one car did and they spoke for awhile longer and she got in and left the place. It was after awhile that I realised what was going on! She was a professional escort ( Okie i like to call it that coz i hate the other words they use to describe such women). I did meet her in college and she was like any normal girl there. Studying, hanging out with friends, library, cafeteria etc. I couldn’t help wonder what made her do this!? I decided to speak to her just to put an end to my curiosity.

I went upto her one day and this was the conversation we had that evening.

Me: I saw you one night at The Bus Stand. I think both you and I know why you were there that night.

She: (An awkward glance at me) So?

Me: I am curious and I need to know why you chose such a path?

She: Why would I tell you? So that you can tell your friends about me n laugh over it??

Me: No because I need to know why that’s all? 

She: (laughing loudly) that is one helluva reason for me to tell u! Girl,don’t you have anything else to do than interfere in someone else’s life??

Me: No.

She: Buzz off.

And i did buzz off that night. But a few months later I saw her again at The Bus Stand and this time she came to me and started talking.  While we waited for my bus, she kept my friends n me company and told us her story over a cup of coffee.

She was from a middle class family. Her dad was not the richie rich type. She came to study in our college and realised that in order to belong to the hep group, she had to have some amount of money. At first she tried coaxing her dad to send her some every month and he relented. Probably he would have thought that this girl would stop asking a few months later. As soon as he stopped sending her cash, she began forcing her dad again and this time her dad said a strict no. But by then she was becoming a part of the Hep Gang and she was willing to do anything to be a part of it. When the money was getting over, she panicked. She sold her books first, then her mobile and slowly slowly the little jewelry her parents had given her.

She was very well loved by all in the group. She was willing to help everybody, always loaded with cash and very charming. Slowly she realised she didnt have anything more to sell. So one night as she was waiting at the Bus Stand to go home, a car stopped in front of her. A guy stepped out and asked her how much she wanted? At first she didn’t understand what was hapenning. Then he said he had the place,food and protection. How much she wanted for a night? She laughed and took it as a joke wondering if god was playing some game with her. She replied in a joking manner, 30,000. He said yes.

She was surprised and asked him again if he was willing to pay 30,000 for a night only?! He said yes and asked her to get into the car. She did.

From then on it was easy money. She says,” Nothing changes, I dont love anyone I have sex with and neither do they fall in love with me. Some dont even see my face! These days virginity is just a word! Tomorrow if my husband doubts my virginity, I can always tell him I fell off the cycle!’

That was her story.  She did pass out of college and she did get married a few years later to a nice looking man from her town. As far as I know they are happy.The hep group she was a part of and gave everything to be  a part of split up long before college ended. All for nothing, I say!

Sometimes when I see these professional escorts on the street I cant help wonder if she still does it for money and what if her husband was to be one of her clients? Could that happen? I don’t know….

Isn’t truth stranger than fiction?!